Why Can’t Writing Be Selfish?
I’m diving into a topic that’s been on my heart: the idea that writing might feel selfish. If you’ve ever hesitated to carve out time for your writing because it feels like you’re taking away from other responsibilities, this blog post is for you.
Is Writing Really Selfish?
Let’s get one thing straight—writing isn’t selfish. It’s necessary. I see so many writers struggling with guilt because they’re prioritizing their creative work. They think, Shouldn’t I be spending this time on my family, my job, or my other obligations? While those responsibilities matter, so does your dream of being an author.
Let me ask you this: Why is it okay for a doctor to invest years in medical school or for a lawyer to spend countless hours preparing for the bar exam, but it feels wrong for writers to dedicate time to their craft? Writing is everywhere—books, movies, TV shows, even the ads we scroll past. It’s not just a hobby; it’s a foundational part of culture and business.
So why is it that when someone says, I want to be a writer, the reaction isn’t as enthusiastic as I want to be a doctor? The truth is, writing takes just as much discipline, dedication, and courage. It’s time to ditch the idea that pursuing your dream is somehow selfish.
Writing Is Personal, but It's Not Just for You
It’s okay if your initial reason for writing feels “selfish.” Maybe you want to see your name on a book cover or feel the pride of typing “The End” on your manuscript. Those motivations aren’t trivial—they’re powerful. They’re the fuel that keeps you moving forward when self-doubt creeps in.
But here’s the kicker: Writing may start as something personal, but it doesn’t end there. When you put your work out into the world, you inspire others. Your book could be the escape someone needs after a tough day, the story that helps them see the world differently, or the words that encourage them to pursue their own dreams.
Think about it: By not writing, aren’t you holding back something that could potentially change someone’s life? If that’s not enough reason to start typing, I don’t know what is.
Stop Waiting for "The Perfect Time"
One of the biggest barriers I hear from writers is, I’ll start when things settle down. Newsflash: Life is always busy. Whether it’s your career, family, or other obligations, there will never be a perfect time to write.
But here’s the good news: You don’t need hours of uninterrupted time to make progress. Even 15–30 minutes a day can add up to something incredible. It’s about consistency, not perfection. When you commit to those small pockets of time, you’ll be amazed at what you can accomplish.
The Courage to Shine
Writing is an act of bravery. When you shine your light by pursuing your goals, you unconsciously give others permission to do the same. Yes, you might encounter naysayers who don’t understand your dream. They’ll ask, Can you really make money from writing? or Isn’t that just a hobby?
Let me tell you something: Writing is a business. Business-minded authors understand this. They know that while creativity is essential, so is strategy. If you treat your writing like the career it is, the possibilities are endless—bestseller lists, movie adaptations, and building a lasting legacy.
Your Readers Are Waiting
Every day that passes without you writing is a missed opportunity for someone to connect with your work. Readers are out there searching for stories that will resonate with them, whether it’s an escapist cozy mystery or a transformative nonfiction guide.
You don’t have to have everything figured out. But you do need to take the first step: Start your first draft. Until your ideas are on paper, they’re just concepts. Once you have a draft, you can shape it into the masterpiece it’s meant to be.
Let’s Make the Last Quarter Count
We’re in the final quarter of the year. Why wait until January to set goals for your writing? Start now, so when the new year rolls around, you’ll already have momentum.
Imagine how amazing it will feel to look back and say, I made real progress this year. I showed up for myself and my dream.
Take Action Today
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This isn’t about writing craft or manuscript critiques—it’s about creating a writing process that works for you. It’s about unlocking your full potential, finishing that first draft, and making your writing goals non-negotiable.
With my program, you’ll gain control over your writing schedule, learn how to write up to 10,000 words in a week without burning out, and see your name on that book cover. You’ll finish your first draft in four months or less and set yourself up for long-term success as an author.
Who Is This Program For?
If you’re a business-minded author who:
Sees writing as a career, not just a hobby
Wants to write consistently and productively
Is ready to invest in their dreams
Values accountability and constructive feedback
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Your story matters, and it’s time to share it with the world.
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